Child support is one of the most emotional and misunderstood issues in family law.
As a Family Court Judge for over two decades, I signed thousands of support orders — and now, as an attorney, I help parents navigate these same issues with clarity and fairness.
Here’s what I wish every parent knew about how child support really works in New York.
Support Is About Fairness, Not Punishment
Child support is meant to ensure your children have financial stability, not to reward or punish either parent.
New York’s Child Support Standards Act sets the basic framework, but courts also consider each family’s unique needs — from medical costs to daycare and education.
Judges Value Transparency
When I was on the bench, incomplete or inaccurate financial disclosures were the fastest way to derail a case.
Judges can only make fair decisions with honest, complete information. Presenting your finances clearly builds credibility and trust.
Life Changes — Support Can Too
Support orders can be modified if circumstances change: income adjustments, job loss, or a child’s evolving needs.
Don’t wait until problems pile up — acting early keeps you in control and prevents arrears from spiraling.
Experience You Can Rely On
Having a former judge on your side means understanding how support cases are evaluated and what truly matters to the court.
At Kirshblum Taber PC, we guide parents through support petitions, enforcement, and modifications — effectively and respectfully.
Call 516-908-8842 or contact us here for help with child support issues.